School Terms of Use

1. Terms

By accessing this School, you are agreeing to be bound by these Terms of Use, all applicable laws and regulations, and agree that you are responsible for compliance with any applicable local laws. If you do not agree with any of these terms, you are prohibited from using or accessing this site. The materials contained in this School are protected by applicable copyright and trademark law.

2. Use License

  1. Permission is granted to temporarily download one copy of any downloadable materials on the School’s website for personal, non-commercial transitory viewing only. This is the grant of a license, not a transfer of title, and under this license you may not:
  2. modify or copy the materials;
  3. use the materials for any commercial purpose, or for any public display (commercial or non-commercial);
  4. attempt to decompile or reverse engineer any software contained on the School’s web site;
  5. remove any copyright or other proprietary notations from the materials; or
  6. transfer the materials to another person or 'mirror' the materials on any other server.
  7. This license shall automatically terminate if you violate any of these restrictions and may be terminated by Company at any time. Upon terminating your viewing of these materials or upon the termination of this license, you must destroy any downloaded materials in your possession whether in electronic or printed format.

3. Disclaimer

The materials on the School’s website are provided 'as is'. The School makes no warranties, expressed or implied, and hereby disclaims and negates all other warranties, including without limitation, implied warranties or conditions of merchantability, fitness for a particular purpose, or non-infringement of intellectual property or other violation of rights. Further, the School does not warrant or make any representations concerning the accuracy, likely results, or reliability of the use of the materials on its website or otherwise relating to such materials or on any sites linked to this site.

4. Limitations

In no event shall the School be liable for any damages (including, without limitation, damages for loss of data or profit, or due to business interruption) arising out of the use or inability to use the materials on the School’s website, even if the School or an authorized of the School has been notified orally or in writing of the possibility of such damage. Because some jurisdictions do not allow limitations on implied warranties, or limitations of liability for consequential or incidental damages, these limitations may not apply to you.

5. Revisions and Errata

The materials appearing on the School’s website may include technical, typographical, or photographic errors. The School does not warrant that any of the materials on its web site are accurate, complete, or current. The School may make changes to the materials contained on its web site at any time without notice. The School does not, however, make any commitment to update the materials.

6. Links

The School has not reviewed all of the sites linked to its website and is not responsible for the contents of any such linked site. The inclusion of any link does not imply endorsement by the School of the site. Use of any such linked website is at the user's own risk.

7. Site Terms of Use Modifications

The School may revise these Terms of Use for its website at any time without notice. By using this website you are agreeing to be bound by the then current version of these Terms of Use.

8. Governing Law

Any claim relating to the School’s website shall be governed by the laws of the School Owner’s home jurisdiction without regard to its conflict of law provisions.




Thank you for purchasing BECOME YOUR OWN PERSON (“Product”). All sales are final for this course. By clicking “Buy Now,” “Complete Order,” or any other phrase on the purchase button, entering your credit card information, or otherwise rendering payment (either in-full or partial) for the product for which these terms appear ("Product," “Course,” and/or “Program”), you (“Client” and/or “Customer”) agree to be provided with products, programs, or services by Vera Wilhelmsen ("Owner") 2- in her capacity as creator of BECOME YOUR OWN PERSON (“coach”), and you are executing a legally binding agreement with the Coach, subject to the following terms and conditions: 



3- Vera Wilhelmsen (“Coach”) is provides inspiration and self-help tools for victims of narcissistic abuse. Coach has created the BECOME YOUR OWN PERSON ("Product") to educate Customer on how to go from feeling completely lost and erased after narcissistic abuse to feeling like themselves and like they are in control of their own lives. The product consists of videos and downloadable exercises, done on paper, in a journal or written in text editing software. A workbook pdf containing all the exercises and summaries of the videos is available for download. Questions can be asked as comments underneath the videos.



4- Term - This Term of this Agreement shall be one year from the date of initial purchase, with the exception of Sections 6 through 11, which shall survive the Term of this Agreement.

Termination - Client dissatisfaction with Coach and/or Coach’s subjective teaching style, independent judgment, methods, or other techniques are not valid reasons for termination of this Agreement or request of any monies returned to Client. Even if Client does not complete all portions of the Program, Client is nevertheless responsible for all payments due and owed under this Agreement by making the first payment of the Program at checkout and executing these Terms and Conditions.



5- The Coach is not an employee, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, nurse, doctor, counselor, licenced medical professional, or other agent of Customer’s business. Customer understands that the Program is created to help Customer learn new skills and assist Customer with finding his/her own direction. The Program may offer guidance regarding narcissistic abuse recovery, but it is the responsibility of the Customer to make the final decision and choose the best option for his/herself.  

6-  Client understands that the Product has been designed by Coach for general educational and informational purposes only, with the goal of teaching Customer new skills and providing Customer with awareness of self-help, self-healing,self-discovery and decision-making tools. Through the Product, the Coach might provide guidance regarding mental health, relationships and life decisions, and narcissistic abuse recovery, but it is ultimately the responsibility of the Customer (and only the Customer) to make the final decision for his/herself. By using Coach’s services and purchasing this Product, Client accepts any and all risks, foreseeable or unforeseeable, arising from such a transaction. Client agrees that Coach will not be held liable for any damages of any kind resulting or arising from the use or misuse of the Program. Client agrees that use of this Product is at user’s own risk.

Client hereby acknowledges that narcissistic abuse recovery coaching are subjective services and Coach’s methods to provide this service may change in terms of style and/or technique. Coach and/or Coach may use its personal judgment to provide the Program services to Client, even if these methods do not follow strict adherence to Client’s suggestions. 

7- Customer also understands that the Product is not a substitute for medical and/or other health care. Customer hereby understands and agrees that Coach is not “diagnosing” or “treating” mental health, which falls under the jurisdiction and expertise of licensed medical health care providers. Customer hereby acknowledges and agrees that they shall consult their health care provider and discuss any recommendations made by Coach. Customer also agrees to immediately inform their health care provider of any illness, pain, or other mental distress and/or physical discomfort that occurs during or after Customer’s participation in the Program BECOME YOUR OWN PERSON.


8- This Product does not include: 1) individualized advice and feedback; 2) individual coaching sessions; 3) therapy sessions in the form of psychotherapy, psychoanalysis, or behavioral therapy; 4) individual counceling 5) 1-1 coaching or individual coaching 6) legal or financial advice; 7) question & answer sessions; 8) unlimited feedback

Customer hereby acknowledges that Customer is solely responsible for the amount of progress on their personal healing journey by implementing techniques and advice provided by Course. Customer also acknowledges that Coach cannot and does not guarantee that implementation of the Course will provide Customer with improvement in their mental health. Customer also agrees that he/she is solely responsible for any decision Customer makes and indemnifies Coach from any liability regarding said decision.  



9- The Product includes four modules, which include pre-recorded videos, workbook, and/or other resources. 

Coach reserves the right to substitute services equal to or comparable to the value of Product if reasonably required by the prevailing circumstances as determined exclusively by Coach. 

This Product may be distributed by Coach either directly or through a third-party platform. Coach reserves the right to substitute services equal to or comparable to the value of Product if reasonably required by the prevailing circumstances as determined by Coach. Access to this Product is currently through a third-party platform, Teachable, LLC. (“Teachable”). Coach is not liable for any limitation of access to the Product caused by Teachable. 



The Product has been developed for educational purposes only. The Coach has established its proprietary Product in order to educate and inspire Customer to pursue his/her personal goals. However, Customer hereby acknowledges that Coach does not guarantee Customer’s goals, whatever the goals may be, will be reached by completing and implementing the advice and techniques in the Product. Customer accepts and agrees that Customer is 100% responsible for his/her results from the Product. Customer acknowledges that, as with any investment, there is an inherent risk associated. As such, Customer agrees there is no guarantee that Customer will attain his/her goals by simply completing the Program.


Nevertheless, Customer acknowledges that he/she can optimize her potential results from the Product by adhering to the following: 


  • Completion of all Product material, including workbook and additional exercises and suggestions;
  • Practicing tools presented in the Program in his/her daily life;
  • Thoughtful and meaningful participation in writing questions in the comment section under videos;
  • Taking 100% responsibility for Customer’s results, 100% of the time.




(a) Upon execution of this Agreement, Client agrees to pay to the Coach the full purchase amount for the Product, regardless of what payment option Client selects at checkout. 

(b) If Client selects a payment plan option, Client agrees to pay all fees pursuant to the payment schedule outlined at checkout and selected by Client. All payments must be paid before three (3) months have passed since Client purchased the Program, or else Coach reserves the right to send Client to collections for any outstanding monies due and owed under this Agreement.

(c) Client authorizes Coach to charge the credit card or account used at checkout to complete all payments pursuant to the payment plan Client selected at checkout, and Client does not require separate authorization for each payment. 

(d) If any payments fail, Client agrees to remedy the situation immediately (ie. update Client’s payment information, provide a new credit card, and/or make all past-due payments within 5 business days) or else Client forfeits his/her right to access the Product. 

(e) The Client shall not threaten or make any chargebacks to the Coach’s account or cancel the credit card that is provided as security without the Coach’s prior written consent. Coach reserves the right to collect any and all monies owed by Client to Coach for the Program, by any means necessary within the parameters of the law. The Client shall pay for any fees associated with recouping payment, including but not limited to, collections fees and attorneys’ fees. In the event of a chargeback, Coach reserves the right to report the incident to credit reporting agencies as a delinquent account. 

(f) Late Fees - Coach understands that, from time to time, there are issues with payment. All payments must be received by Coach within five (5) days of the due date for that installment. Any payments not received within 5 days of their due date shall be subject to a late fee of $50.00 USD. Any payments not received within 10 days of their due date shall result in Customers breach of these terms and may result in removal of access to the Program. Client shall still remain responsible to make all payments due and owing under this Agreement to Coach in the event Client’s access to the Program is revoked.




All sales are final for this course. Due to the inherent nature of educational programs and the electronic transmission of the same, there are no refunds.



Confidential Information & Non-Disclosure - Coach takes pride in its proprietary information included in each Product. As such, Customer agrees and acknowledges all Confidential Information shared through this Product and by the Coach is confidential, proprietary, and belongs exclusively to Coach.


“Confidential Information” includes, but is not limited to:

  • Any systems, sequences, processes or steps shared with Customer;
  • Any information disclosed in association with this Agreement;
  • Any systems, sequences, processes, or trade secrets in connection with the Product or Coach’s business practices.


Testimonials - Coach also agrees to protect Customer’s personally identifiable information. However, from time to time, Coach may use general statements about Customer’s success for testimonials as part of Coach’s marketing strategy. By agreeing to these Terms, Customer agrees to Coach sharing Customer’s success stories as testimonials in any matter across any media at the sole discretion of Coach.

Non-Disparagement - Client agrees, during and/or after use of Product, to refrain from making any statements, whether oral or in writing, that negatively impact Coach’s program, business, services, products, or reputation.



Intellectual Property - This Product and the related content shall be considered intellectual property owned by Coach. Other examples of intellectual property owned by Coach and  within Coach’s products include, but are not limited to: trademarks, service marks, layout, logos, business names, course/program/module names, design, text, written copy, certain images, podcast recordings, workbooks, videos, audio files, and all of our paid products (collectively referred to as “Intellectual Property”). 


Limited License - Coach grants only a limited, personal, non-exclusive and non-transferable license to Customer to use the Intellectual Property for Customer’s personal and internal business use. Nothing in this Agreement shall transfer ownership of or rights to any intellectual property of the Coach to the Client, nor grant any right or license other than those stated in this Agreement. Customer acknowledges that his/her purchase of this Product is for his/her/its single individual use. Customer shall not copy, reproduce, transmit, modify, edit, create derivative works from, alter, sell, or share with others any products or parts of the Program without prior written consent or unless provided otherwise


If Customer is also a business owner or professional in a similar industry, Customer shall not misappropriate any of Coach’s Intellectual Property and proprietary information in the following manner:

  • Teaching Customer’s clients/customers/audience any of the information, methods, solutions, or formulae owned by Coach and passing it off as Customer’s own;
  • Copying any of Coach’s Product content and/or material for Customer’s commercial use;
  • Copying, publishing, transmitting, transferring, selling, creating derivative works from, reproducing, or in any way exploiting any of the Intellectual Property owned by Coach in either whole or part without prior written consent. 




Customer hereby acknowledges that Coach is not liable for any injuries that may arise from Customer’s actions, omissions, or decisions based off Customer’s [participation in this Program], including but not limited to: a decision to leave a job, a decision to leave a relationship, a decision to confront another person, a decision to make any life change, a decision to start a business, any of Client’s business decisions, any of Client’s financial decisions. Client hereby agrees to indemnify and hold harmless Coach of any claims that may arise after use of this Program. 


11- Access to this Product is currently through a third-party platform,Teachable. Coach is not liable for any limitation of access to the Product caused by Teachable.




A.             Amendments - We reserve the right to amend this Agreement from time to time. Any amendments must be agreed in writing and executed by both parties.

B.             Headings & Severability - Headings are included for convenience purposes only and shall not affect the construction of this Agreement. If any portion of this Agreement is held to be unenforceable, it shall not affect the remaining portions of the Agreement, which shall remain in full effect. If any portion of this Agreement is held to be unenforceable, then the unenforceable portion shall be construed in compliance with applicable law in a light most favorable to the original intentions of the parties. If the unenforceable portion of the Agreement is found by a competent court of this jurisdiction to be contrary to law, then it shall be changed and interpreted to best reflect the original intentions of the parties, and all other provisions shall remain in full force and effect.

C.             Entire Agreement - This Agreement reflects the entire agreement between the parties. This Agreement trumps any other existing negotiations, communications or Agreements between the parties, whether written, oral, or electronic, and is the full extent of the Agreement between the parties.

D. All Rights Reserved - All rights not expressly granted in this Agreement are reserved by us. 

E.        Governing Law - Coach is located in Norway and is subject to the applicable laws governing Norway. The governing law for this agreement is the laws of Trøndelag County and Trondheim Municipality.

F.             Arbitration - Any disputes arising under this Agreement shall first be resolved through a binding arbitration. 

G.     Maximum Damages - Client agrees and acknowledges that the maximum amount of damages that Client may be entitled to in any claim arising from this Agreement or Program shall not exceed the total cost of the Program.

H. Execution – Customer agrees to accept the above Agreement in its entirety when Customer selects and confirms “Vera Wilhelmsen's School of Badassery's Terms of Use & Privacy Policy” at the Product checkout page and by rendering first payment.